There are many who think about this.
What did you start looking for
when you were 5 years old?
Deep in side you know you were born
with a mission, but what?
There is that biological link we all were programmed to know and try to make happen, but there is another group of us who were born to focus more on the continuance of over all life that effects tens of thousands of people over just adding to the population.
Honestly, you were born to make a discovery and not be a wage earner, born to raise children and be a part of a base that helps keep elements for sustenance affordable.
Once you have made your mark, it is then that the mate that is right for you comes into your life. Deny Destiny by obsessing about peer pressure your life will be frozen, as if you were encased in stone.